In my younger days I travelled the world.  I am now 52 and married with two small children aged five and nine they have changed my life.  But my wife wants to be out all the time and I look after the children when I finish work so she can go out. 

 

We have been married for 12 years.  I now think she is having an affair.  I have no proof.  But I am thinking of getting a private detective am I doing the right thing or shall I just let her get it out of her system.  I love my wife and don't want to lose her.  I try and check her phone but she is to clever. 

 

I have tried talking to her but it doesn't work.  I am going to leave her I have made up my mind and go for custody of the kids as she does not seem to care just writing this down has helped me decide thank you fun after 40. com